The next time one of your most cherished notions is challenged (they’re easy to spot: they’re squawking behind every door labeled “Upset”), try this experiment.
Consider whether the notion might be fallible. Take a closer look at reality (on the other side of your Upset) and see if you can completely rely on the map. Sometimes you may value the upset and want to keep it. But other times, it may simply be less interesting than Reality. There’s always something you don’t know.
Hey, you may not even need a map to get where you want to go!